One Step At A Time

New thoughts from a fellow NAFDMA member, Deanna Black of Center Grove Orchard


When you put all your focus into one thing and strive forward (especially in our busy seasons of life), don't forget to look up and notice your surroundings with the beauty AND/OR the detour that needs to be taken in your path.


When experiencing frustration and conflict, no matter the source, start with an intention conversation. Is everyone on the same page? Does anyone have specific goals? How does each one define a "slow pace" or a "fast pace"?


My Hike
For example, I recently participated in a multi-day hike with a few friends.  We stopped to take a break one morning, and I wanted to stop and savor a chocolate croissant I smuggled from breakfast.  One of my hiking counterparts (who runs crazy ultra 100 mile runs!), was questioning the pace we are keeping and the elevation change we have made.  The story in my head from my friend was that I was slowing her down, which was not actually true.  We had to have a conversation about expectations so all of us felt good with each of our goals. 


Another way to consider this - does each person's behavior match their words? If not, what questions need to be asked if friction is felt?


In this season of hard work on the farm, what conversations should be had with those around us to ensure we are all walking the same path? 

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